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WE LIVE AND WE BLAME...

“ BLAMING “ -the easiest thing in the world to do.
bad moods to politics
traffic jams to relationships
we blame and blame and blame.
if not people then govt if not govt then god..but some1 somewhere has to be responsible for whats happening in our lives today and someone will always be responsible for everything that will happen in our lives till the time we die.
No single day passes when we don’t blame anybody for any reason.so when are we responsible?or do we ever are?yes!may be those 5-10 times in life when we have said sorry,felt or not thats a different issue and yes!definately those 100-200 times when something good has happened to us.
we say the world is bad,so is the whole world to be blamed?
“intellects” will say the politicians,the beurocrats,the policies and their makers …
Some one in "family" would say –that aunt of yours she did that to me..those many years before so she is to be blamed.
"Friends" say-that riya she is hitting on my boyfrnd.she is so  mean and bad or may be the teachers they don’t know how to teach they are to be blamed.
And in "general" what to say everybody is to be blamed from a 'panvala' on a nukkad to 'god'..
Do we ever give a second thought before blaming anyone that what are we doing? or do we ever give it a single thought that how negative we are to the people we are living with and to the world we are surviving in?
It has become such integrated part of our life style that if we try not to blame anybody for anything  even for day it might not be possible for us. we are habitual of “blaming”…some times with and many a times without reasons.
So take up a challenge if you can “I won’t blame anybody today” just  try and solve the problems that comes to you without looking for who prepared them for you.
And see how that “one day “ goes…without the “blame game “.



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