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JUST NOT LOVE

Infatuation,obssession,attachment,affection these are nothing but names given to our generation's "perceived love"which sometimes is a wrong decision and sometimes a mere effort to fall in love.
As we grow older curiosity turns into experimentation. we do that with words,with clothes,with style and with realationships too probably. And then we are tagged as “spoiled generation” giving us the license to be like that again.
we try to experience what bollywoood 24*7 says-"pyaar" “ishq"aur "mohabbat"
" pyaar hua ikraar hua hai pyaar se fir kyun darta hai dil "
" dil tou pagal hai dil diwana hai.."      
does childhood go away for “sleepless nights” “long talks on phone” “dancing down the street” and “ singing romantic numbers” ?
who designed falling in love to be like that?
“BOLLYWOOD” would not be wrong to say I guess.We are seeing and listening so many definitions of love on screen and somewhere are making mistakes while trying to fit in one of them.
Our parents generation and generations before are declared as least romantic people on this earth by bollywood (though that trend is changing thankfully)but we don’t seek for their advice in life as they don’t understand love is what we feel.They might be conservative, they might be strict, they might not know “ek nazar mei pyaar kaise hota hai..” but they know how to sustain “love”.. they might not say “I love you”  even once but they feel it for life and we might say it hundred times and not feel  it even once. generation gap isn’t it?

The point lies Whether love is friendship or whether it is at first sight..the big banners at multiplexes can express it in hundred ways but cannot define it exactly for anyone .sharukh(kuch kuch hota hai)might love his best friend at the end but not every rani mukherji  dies and  not every kajol  marries so late . so BEWARE OF BOLLYWOOD LOVE.




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  1. Atul SinghOctober 15, 2011 at 1:06 AM

    This Sounds Interseting ..... Pyaar, Ishq aur Mohabbat .... a same coin with 3 faces ( I guess a coins has only 2 faces but this time its an exception.)

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