BEYOND DICTIONARY(MY OWN MEANINGS)

Infatuation,obssession,attachment,affection these are nothing but names given to our generation's "perceived love"which sometimes is a wrong decision and sometimes a mere effort to fall in love. As we grow older curiosity turns into experimentation. we do that with words,with clothes,with style and with realationships too probably. And then we are tagged as “spoiled generation” giving us the license to be like that again. we try to experience what bollywoood 24*7 says-" pyaar " “ ishq "aur " mohabbat " " pyaar hua ikraar hua hai pyaar se fir kyun darta hai dil " " dil tou pagal hai dil diwana hai.."        does childhood go away for “sleepless nights” “long talks on phone” “dancing down the street” and “ singing romantic numbers” ? who designed falling in love to be like that? “BOLLYWOOD” would not be wrong to say I guess.We are seeing and listening so many definitions of love on screen and somewhere are making mistakes ...

है तो बस एक शब्द पर ज़िन्दगी की सबसे बड़ी ज़रूरत है दोस्ती बदल जाता है हर वक्त,हर शख्स बदल जाता है कभी ना कभी नही बदलती तो ये दोस्ती! कहते हैं किसी रिश्ते को मजबूत बनाना है तो दोस्त बनो..    रिश्ता चाहे कुछ दिन या हो सालों पुराना, दिल से निभाना है तो दोस्त बनो..                                                    प्यार की पहली सीड़ी पहली कोशिश है दोस्ती..                                               किसी का उम्र भर साथ निभाना है तो दोस्त बनो.. हर रिश्ते को नई सांस देती है दो...

“ BLAMING “ -the easiest thing in the world to do. bad moods to politics traffic jams to relationships we blame and blame and blame. if not people then govt if not govt then god..but some1 somewhere has to be responsible for whats happening in our lives today and someone will always be responsible for everything that will happen in our lives till the time we die. No single day passes when we don’t blame anybody for any reason.so when are we responsible?or do we ever are?yes!may be those 5-10 times in life when we have said sorry,felt or not thats a different issue and yes!definately those 100-200 times when something good has happened to us. we say the world is bad,so is the whole world to be blamed? “intellects” will say the politicians,the beurocrats,the policies and their makers … Some one in "family" would say –that aunt of yours she did that to me..those many years before so she is to be blamed. "Friends" say-that riya she is hitting on my boyfrnd.she is so   m...